Wine and Dine Hunting Adventure!

Yes, wine can be an accessory. No, not like when you spill it on your favorite silky shirt nor when it stains your teeth and matches that burgundy lipstick. There are actually necklace apparatuses (check out www.wineyolk.com, I am serious!)  that you can sleeve your wine glass through. I guess this was invented to allow your hands to be free allowing for that animated conversation you and your girlfriends always seem to be having. Maybe it serves to be placed perfectly between your “great divide” to accentuate what God clearly wanted we women to proudly display. How about the next concert or sporting event- no need to put the glass down now when you feel the need to clap! Or maybe, just maybe, it was meant for some tired woman who endlessly cleans, sweeps, hugs, helps with homework, etc thus does not have time to sit down for her sip of wine. I think Lisa Wallner needs one of these! Who thought of such a contraption? Not sure, who cares! You will be sure to find one or more at this year’s shoe hunt and accessory party! Just for fun.

This was just one of the many entertaining items Kathy, Kelly, and I encountered this past Sunday at Wine and Dine 2013 sponsored by Boston Store. Though this was not technically a “hunting mission”, each one of us came dressed to kill. We were on the hunt for good food, wine and even came across some smooth bourbon and dark malt. While the rain poured and wind gusted outside, inside the only drops were those left in our glasses after a sampling of greats such as Leonitti Cellar winery, Aviation Top Gin, and Sheboygan’s very own Sheeps Brewery. The air was calm and filled with aromatic flavors thanks to Braise, Le Reve, and the Harbor House who were among the over 30 restaurants serving out delectable samples. If you are interested in learning more of these and other great finds in the Milwaukee area, download the “Best of Brew City” free app from the Apple or Google store!

Though this may sound like all play and no work, we did work! Hunting doesn’t just happen and if a hunt is successful, it is essential you know how to prepare it. We signed up for a cooking class presented by the MATC Culinary Arts School. Of all things, we made aioli (fancy for mayo). Here’s a recipe that seems similar: http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Aioli/Detail.aspx. In place of the “water” called for in this recipe, just lean forward as the beads of salty sweat drop off your forehead! Because, remember, we had to whisk…and whisk…and whisk. We were paired with Jo, a beautiful woman, who loved to cook as well. We were able to take the aioli home and I sampled it with smoked salmon- yum! This culinary experience reminded me of one of the best dinners I can remember. It came from a culinary school I went to when out visiting my friend Heidi in Bend. I was happy to find out MATC is now doing the same- http://www.matc.edu/cuisine/. 

The highlight of my day was the pleasure of spending it with 2 awesome women. Kathy and Kelly have a long friendship together. I always feel honored to spend time with such talented and giving ladies. In addition, this experience inspired ideas for the Shoe and Accessory Hunt Fundraising Party on December 4th. Besides great wine and beer samplings being offered by Moosenuckles, your entrance to this great event will include delicious food too! After all, hunting burns calories- we need to dine! I look forward to sampling smoked trout, teriyaki venison, and elk meatballs with famous “Two Fat Guys” hot sauce to name a few! Hunting themed cuisine will be available, of course!

Next edition: more about the raffle prizes!

My dad

It was January 12th. My birthday. It was my dad calling. I was anxious to answer the phone. I knew he would be giving me the news about his biopsy report. I responded with pure joy when he told me it was negative. Pleasantly surprised was an understatement. He had been coughing for a few years we think. He always had an excuse- a cold, something in the air, an infection. Then he went to a doctor. He was told it was reflux. I thought that was reasonable considering he did admit to heartburn. He was working the night shift, not eating the best, certainly not working out, drank caffeine and soda to wake him, and had developed a little belly- all recipes for reflux. Then the blood clot came to his leg. He drove more than an hour to work and back, again, made sense. He had a minor hernia repair surgery- something that would happen to a guy who repaired everything, no matter how heavy, on his own. He later told me he likely developed the hernia from a strong cough, a cough that almost made him pass out while driving. He said the surgeon knew the hernia was caused by the cough and didn’t think much of it. We, my sisters and I, continually prodded for him to go to the doctor. He even started to notice his memory was not the best, again many reasons including high stress being blamed. “They don’t do anything”, he claimed, “they just give me cough medicine.” He got inhalers after lung testing showed asthma. Just once I should have gone with him. And finally, he did go after making sure he was seeing the right provider. Scans and scopes were ordered. And finally, a biopsy right around Christmas time. 

He never smoked though was exposed growing up to second hand smoke. He was in the Navy and worked in Tool and Die most his life. He was strong whether it be with opinions or determination. He made THE best Thanksgiving breakfasts. Was an outstanding grandpa. Would give his life for his family…and did.  

On January 14th, he called me again. They got the results mixed up. Yes, this was happening to my family. A family heavy in the healthcare arena. My father was being diagnosed with lung cancer two days after he was told he didn’t have it. I didn’t miss an appointment after that. The news grew worse each day. It was stage IV. He had a huge lesion in his brain. They were amazed he was so functional. He, my mom, and I went to fill out his disability and Medicare paper work as he made the hard decision to quit work. They were afraid he would seizure so put him on high dose steroid which he hated. Russ on steroids…not good. Decreasing the size of the tumor in his brain took top priority so rather than chemotherapy or synchronous therapy, it was felt that whole brain radiation was the best option. Most options did not reveal a significant difference, all stating survival may be improved by 3-6 months. This WBR was a decision I regret immensely to this day…but not because there was a better decision. I just wish there was a better option. At that point, he was fully functional and we were calling hospice- completely surreal because this did not look like a dead man walking. He started asking “what I wanted”. Yuck. Nothing. You…better. 

The WBR really sucked. Or maybe it was the cancer. Within a few weeks, he developed an ileus. He couldn’t eat. He was hospitalized. After a few days, the doc came in for the tough talk. He didn’t think it was a good idea to continue treatments. We brought him home. I stopped working. I went shopping trying to find anything he seemed to like eating. I remember anytime he would eat something, I went out to get 5 more of what he ate. One day, I bought him kombucha tea. I vividly remember that day. It was all happening so fast and I couldn’t even think. I knew how to keep people well. I got paid to help people get better. I believed medicine worked. I believed holistic therapies worked. But there was my dad dying…and all I could think of was to buy him tea. And the look in his eyes that day, I will sadly so never forget. He hated the taste but had a faithful and hopeful look that I was feeding him a cure because he read the label…“fights cancer”.  He later sat me on the couch and said, “there is going to be a day when nothing works.” He died one week later.

On the April 2oth night before his death, I went home to be with my kids. My sisters and I were giving him 24 hour care and I was “off duty”. I slept in my son’s bed snuggled so tight. In the am, moments before my phone rang to wake me that he had passed, my dad came to me. He was in a beautiful dream with his voice telling me he loved me as I felt the whiskers of his beard press firmly on my cheek with his lips giving me a final kiss. I was thankful for all the time we spent together those last few months but those few seconds will be with me for eternity. 

There is so much more to this synosped story that has gone untold for now. Someday I will piece it all together. One thing I have learned- Grieving is a weird phenomenon. I have always been a private person (though this blog hardly speaks to that) and death pulled me in even more. It is extremely hard to imagine anything going on outside my selfish world when trying to understand what is happening. And even years later, the loss is still lost. 

Andrew and I pray each night to Grandpa. It can be a simple “Hi” to a “I wonder what you are doing” to  “I hope you had a good day”. On his 70th birthday this November 1st, he watched over Jordan shoot his first deer with a bow. He laughed out loud when I veered too close to the mailbox with Todd’s truck scraping up the side hearing him say “you never believed me when I said you were too close”. He is ever present.

A few weeks after his correct diagnosis, I called Jillian to tell her. She graciously offered to help through the Chix 4 A Cause donation. “What does he need?” This is what I love about this organization. A gift of love it was. Russ was overwhelmed with a diagnosis of cancer. The only thing he heard at the doctor’s office was that he was going to need a humidifier because he was likely going to get nose bleeds. I remember him being so worried about that side effect. So, as Chix does, you get what you ask for. Doesn’t seem like much but it was! He didn’t want to be responsible for doing one more thing. Within a week, they came to visit with humidifier in hand as well as a prayer shawl, gas cards, and other love items. Their presence was a gift above and beyond. My mother melted in their love. 

It’s another year. I look forward to an event that gives so much to those with this diagnosis.  Thank you Chix 4 A Cause for who you are.

Back and Better Than Ever!

As I log on to my blogger account, a rush of anxiety moves up from my toes to my nose. I have been absent for more than a year! It was not without good reason. I have spent most of 2011 and 2012 in a doctoral program writing countless papers, essays, and cohort responses. My computer was a permanent fixture in my life. The last thing I could think of doing was writing for fun though that certainly would have been quite therapeutic. In December of 2012, I crossed the stage and am proud to call myself a Doctor of Nursing Practice! It was a stressful yet rewarding journey that I, and my body will never forget as evidenced by my reaction I got when reflecting on it today! Well, I am back and happy to write for fun again!

It has only been 7 years since the shoe hunt inception yet so much has changed. Back then, Kathy, Gini, Kelly, and I gathered at the Call of the Wild sharing stories about our husbands'  recent mailings of turkey and deer tags with Kelly nearing the end of a long racing season. We turned our sorrow into joy at the idea of a similar type of hunting/racing experience. Why not go out to hunt for our passion...shoes! Those early years make me laugh. I remember posing with a sales clerk after my "kill" with my "weapon" (credit card!). Kathy and I even made a video of a "hunting show" for girls with a map of local hot spots! We sat outside filming with my cornfield as a backdrop. I have no idea where that video ended up! Back then, we all worked together at Aurora. Today, we are spread out with new jobs, titles, or businesses. Gini has children nearly ready for marriage while Kelly has one in college. What remains is a friendship built on love, faith, and memories...and a continued passion for fashion!

Last year's shoe hunt was handled by Tammy Schladweiler in my absence. And what a job she did! It was held at Timmers. They had vendors and a fashion show. The food was fabulous and turn out was grand! After the 6th year, our hunting group has raised over $10,000 for Chix 4 A Cause. A tradition we plan to continue.

This year's hunting season is in full swing. The invites, whether by mail or Facebook, at out. The planning of the food and raffle baskets are in progress. I just reviewed my "Food and Wine" magazine  and am excited to bring some goodies I found! I am most excited about our venue this year. We have explored different locations over the years. This one gives me the same feel that Imagine Coffee House did. I remember the first year, during a huge snow storm, only 10 people present (including Mike the bartender from Jeff's!), the feeling of thankfulness for making it safely, the warmth and closeness of the ladies, the laughing, and the singing. Though nights like this can never be replicated nor do I want a snowstorm to prevent safe travel, I do love the idea of pulling together kind, inspiring, uplifting, strong women in one room to share in the glory of giving. Moosenuckles in Campbellsport has a rustic feel to it. It is simple yet elegant. It's like Central Perk but with wine and hearty brew...and there will be no Chandler or Ross as it's a gathering of girls. If you have never been, it is another great reason to join us that evening! Ronda, the owner, feels to me like a friend I have known forever and yet have only met her twice. I would imagine you will feel the same.

And as for the hunting, it is primo this season! Andrew got his first deer during the youth gun hunt; Jordan, his first bow kill; and Todd just shot a buck. We enjoyed some of the backstraps mixed in our favorite teriyaki sauce last evening. We have pheasants, turkey, and fish from the summer taking up freezer space among the veggies we harvested from the garden. I have been hunting as well. What, what, what, what...Macklemore & Ryan Lewis featuring Wanz popularized the idea of thrift shopping last year with their hit song. One (wo)man's trash is another (wo)man's treasure! Though I do not feel I have got THE pair for the season, I certainly have found some great deals at our local thrift shops! however, my favorite hunting came months ago when I traveled to Nashville with a few of the co-founders of the DNR Shoe & Accessory Hunt. Amidst the country honky tonk music 24/7 were cowboy boots galore! Kelly, I do believe your kill takes the cake for sure!!!! We decided shoe hunt traveling at some point during the year should be an annual tradition.

Of course, this is all for one special night designated to a special organization chix4acause.org. Many details about hunts, the organization, some of the donators, and the fundraiser night will continue to appear on this blog so check back frequently. I also encourage you to send in your stories, pics, and comments! I love the feedback!

The available tags for this year's season are noted below. I appreciate your generosity and look forward to your involvement! Because of the venue size, the space is limited to 50 guests. Please reply quickly to reserve your spot!!!

We hunt for shoes and accessories instead or maybe even in addition to deer. Our hunting season occurs during the deer hunting season. Our goal is to bring friends together to experience what our deer hunter counter parts do. We come together after the hunting season to celebrate. The party is a fundraiser for Chix 4 A Cause. Please wear your "kill" to this event to show off. Prizes are given for the best shoe and best story! 

This year it is even easier to give. Please select from the following tags:

ELK tag $100 includes 4 samples of wine or beer tasting, a Moosenuckles glass, and 5 raffle tickets
BEAR tag &75 includes 2 samples of wine or beer tasting and 3 raffle tickets
DEER tag $50 includes all you can drink water or soda and 3 raffle tickets
PHEASANT tag regretfully cannot make it but will consider a donation to chix4acause.org
DOVE tag for the giving hunter who is donating a valued $50 or more basket for raffle. You can purchase your own drink and raffles the night of the gathering.

"Like us" at DNR Shoe & Accessory Hunt on FB
RSVP on FB or at paulanp71@gmail.com

Be Well!
Paula

Shoe Hunt #5 in style

We knew this year would be different. We wanted it to be that way. The whole reason why we had come up with the DNR shoe hunt was to hunt in a way our husbands hunted. We envied the excitement they had in opening the envelope with tags for the upcoming season. Making the phone call (uhhm, phone calls) to inform others and inquire if they had received one as well.

OK, so we are a bit more high tech. Your tags came (as evites) by email or postings by FB or even just a phone call...but it was going to be the hunting trip that would make this year feel so right! The DNR Shoe & Accessory Hunt crew ventured out as adventurous guides this year.

We had a nice group meet up at Imagine Coffee House at 9 am. Rick & Lisa brightened our eyes with coffee and tea (I love the Goddess Tea!) while we chatted away. The house was filled with excitement and anticipation of what this day would bring. There was a group of distinguished men next to our gathering table who seemed eager to join in on our giggle-filled conversations. Our bellies were filled with spinach quiches sided with carrots and fruit. As our breakfast was coming to an end, the white Hummer limousine pulled up to the door awaiting our entry.

We gathered around the Christmas tree inside the coffee house to snap a quick pic with our "backtags" in place. Sheila and Sherry of Visual Graphics of West Bend had gifted us with these. Written across our backs would now reflect what our intention was for the day- to prove that "Real Chix Hunt".

With calm rain falling from above, we climbed into the limo and took our places. The 2007 Shoe song themed CD came in handy to set the mood. (unfortunately so did a never ending video of Celine Dion, Justin Timberlake, and Gloria Estefan on the mini TV). We were off to our first stop with mimosas in one hand and chocolate covered strawberries in the other. Once in route, Guide Kelly handed out furry, leopard print hunting packs to the group. Since we would be madly hunting this entire day, it was packed with "deer tracks" (granola) and "deer droppings" (dark chocolate covered nuts) made by the Candytree. The hunting guides had done their scouting so these also contained coupons for the stores we would be coming upon. Lastly, the rules. Each hunter was to pick another to hunt with. Each was given a list of 10 fun hunting challenges for the day. The best hunters would win a prize.

Our first hunting spot seemed like private land. We arrived at E collectique with gracious hunting expert (beyond expert) Mikelle welcoming us with a surprise. She had made this day "Hunt 1 kill, get another kill 25% off" and that 25% would go to our fundraiser. As a guide, it is such a blessing to see when a hunter comes upon new land that they passionately love. This was the place. It was so neat hunting in a pack like that. Everyone with different goals, wisely holding you off if (as one hunter BFF so kindly told me) "that kill would do nothing for you!" And boy, was there the laughter. It was as if we were nestled around a campfire already reciting our stories of the hunt that day but in real time. Hands down, Amy had the most amazing kill to be shown off later that night. We ALL left completing a very successful hunt.

Down to DSW. It gave us time in the limo to mingle. Bruce, our wonderful chauffeur, had generously donated his time to get us around safely. His big smile and infectious laugh inspired. He made turns that shocked us, hovered buildings too closely, and even told stories to make crowds think we were movie stars in for the weekend Broadway show. He made sure we never touched a door handle (and gently yelled if we tried). If we would have let him, he would have gladly carried our bags while we shopped.

Our last stop came too quickly. We were off to Mayfair Mall almost on a serious mission as we were at t minus 1:15 to go before the carriage turned back into a pumpkin. And though there was little time, this is where the hunters showed off their skills. Of the many missions we set our for our hunting crew, 2 groups accomplished 5 of the tasks. I will never forget Amy dressed exactly the same as the mannequin. The Best part- she already had the vest the mannequin had donned in Ann Taylor. Or how about Joy and Vickie's bearded man. And the advice from a stranger "May the force be with you". We also loved the pic of Amy and a 21 y.o. outside the Forever 21 store. In the end, Joy and Vickie beat out Amy and Karen as the 1st ever winners of the Hunting Challenge. Now they have a gift certificate to spend at the mall again someday.

Hunting made us tired...or maybe it was the mimosas? As we headed back to West Bend, watching Celine one more time ;-), we made it back to our families to dress out our kills and head out to Pillars for cheering on the Badgers.

Though the gathering certainly was not what had been done in the past, we had not intended it to be what it had been. We had invited the boys. We were having it at a public venue. We still had intentions of good food and great stories. But it was a last minute Championship Badger game (found out on Tuesday before the party) that changed the workings of the night. I took it as God's way of saying "Be Merry and Give, don't fret the small stuff". Amongst the loud chants and jumping up and down, we were able to let the patrons of Pillars know why we were there. We exchanged finger apps for huge sub sandwiches. And rather than tons of raffle baskets we slowed it down with two 50/50 raffles.

I will take a moment to say the raffle baskets were much appreciated. I know those in attendance could agree the donation of kindheartedness that goes behind that aspect of the evening is so thoughtful. Though all of the baskets were unique in character and rich in design and product, one stood out to me this year. Though we all may be able to name a person that embroiders, when there is a story that fits in to the cause, it makes these donated embroidered cloths all the more meaningful. Pat Jossart was diagnosed with breast cancer over 2 years ago. During her struggles with treatment, she joined our gathering in 2009 and received a gift of love from Chix 4 A Cause that evening. Last year, she joined us again at the shoe hunt party and proudly won "Best Accessory" with her sassy wig. This year, fully recovered, she wanted to give back. She stitched beautiful kitchen towels with delicate coffee style designs while her best friend Pat Poch helped complete the basket with other accessories. What a blessing.

We are deeply touched by the continued generosity of our friends and family. Chix 4 A Cause is a wonderful local organization who deliver the small touches while those with cancer go through the big deals. Those gifts of love can make all the difference. I hope those in attendance walked away satisfied, grateful, and in peace. For those that ventured out hunting during the day time, THANK YOU. The joy I felt throughout the day filled my heart beyond it's borders. For the guys that joined us in the evening, THANK YOU. Traditionally, this has been girls night. We wanted to try something different and we thank all those for respecting that decision. And lastly, to the hunting crew that has been around for 5 years running and for many newbies this year, THANK YOU. We can't wait for next year!

During the day, we closely monitoring our hunting team. Each year, we pick winners for the following categories- Best Shoes, Best Accessory, Best Story, and Best Deal. Here are our winners:

Best Shoes- Tammy Schladweiler found a dazzling pair of black pumps while we were at DSW. What we loved about her hunting experience was that she was out for the kill...especially when a fellow hunter was eyeing up the target. I think her quote may have been "While I have to get 'em if you were gonna get 'em!"

Best Accessory- Amy Leitheiser casually thumbed through the deal rack at E collectique. She picked up the most colorful shirt. The knitted similarly-colorful sleeves were what gave this hunting kill the need for best accessory. Bonus- she looked great in it! And I can easily say, I cannot imagine there would be another shirt like this around.

Best Story- You may have had to be there for this one but we've gotta give props to Jillian Clark. I won't go into full detail of how she had us rolling on this hunt with 1. her beaver (pelt) that she would love to sell but is currently in storage and 2. next's years "magic shoe" that is sure to be a hot auction item!

Best Deal- My Mother in Law, Pat. No, she didn't even shop with us but did meet us out for breakfast and later at the party. How does she get best deal then? Because she IS simply the best deal. She has been such a gracious supporter of Chix. She is a visionary woman with a heart of gold. She rocks, hands down.

New awards this year-

Best Bar- Pillars. I mean, really, this place is awesome to hang out it and watch any game in. It's too bad we couldn't have played the Sex in the City movie that night like we planned! Imagine seeing the parts in that movie on that huge-ola big screen.

Best Bartender- Pat Kent, my high school teacher, gracious host and generous man who allowed our gathering AND gave all of the money back for the 50/50. Nice, nice! Kuddos to you!

A whole new year!

It's that time of year again...hunting. My husband's experience is going to be different than all of the 25 years he has spent hunting before. He ruptured his patellar tendon 1 week ago and is currently recovering from the repair with a doctor's ordered straight leg brace for at least 4 weeks which is right though the gun season. Barely out of anesthesia, he was reciting ways he thought he could still manage the hunt. Today he was positioned, legally, just outside our house with his blaze orange on with gun in hand ready for something to pass. This is legal as we have no neighbors within a 100 yard radius. Nothing today.

What bothers him more than anything is that our son, Jordan, is of hunting age and he can't be with him. Jordan has never been successful with a deer kill. He has the eyes of his father however (and that is a good thing, for sure!) He has killed everything else that appears in his site. As an 11 year old, he has already shot tons of pheasants, turkeys, ducks, geese, and even a bear! It brings me no greater joy than to see he and his dad bond through this hunting time. And believe me, though Todd is not currently by his side, they are in constant communication! Luckily, Todd has a wonderful family who has stepped up to the plate to take Jordan out for this unforgettable experience. There are many days left with many stories yet to be told.

Today was full of stories and plans for hunting. Todd, Andrew, and I met up with the Carlton hunting crew for lunch. Though no deer had been seen, an exchange of laughter and elaborate dialog took place as we huddled around the table. Jordan's eyes pierced on his older cousins every move. Chris and Lisa generously inviting Jordan in on future hunts. Incidences of prior experiences were handed down to this next generation in playful yet meaningful ways. It seems there are times when some cannot find tree stands, forget back tags, drive trucks into swaps, and need cough silencers or whatever other gadgets are now available today that hadn't been in years past. One thing is for sure, Jordan is a serious hunter with an irrefutable ability to maintain himself in such a present moment- there is not a detail of a story that ever seems to get by him.

So while those types of stories can be told, the girls wish to continue to create their own. Jillian, Kelly, and I met for a morning pow-wow to finish on the details of this year's shoe hunt. One of the pieces the original batch of the Shoe Hunt Ladies loved was the idea that while our guys could bond through hunting, we wanted to as well! We have had our most memorable experiences since the inception of this event when we went out on a hunt together! Piling our "kills" on top of the car for a group pick! Snapping picks as we make our "kill" with credit card in hand. Making a goofy video which no one, besides us, has ever seen about the important features of hunting!

This year, we wish to capture those memories once again! It is the time we spend together that can seem to matter most. Our day will begin with a shoe and accessory hunting experience! We will fuel up at 9 am at the Imagine Coffee House. Our guides will rally the troops at 10 to head out for a "drive" to our destination(s) with hunting packs in hand. We will hunt until 3 or until we cannot anymore then head back home to clean up, gut out the kill, and head out with our friends and family at 7 pm to Pillars for good times! Raffles and 50:50 will be there as well! We thought our other halves could join in on the fun if they wish. As we have had in the past, prizes will be awarded for Best Shoes, Best Accessories, Best Deals, and Best Story...I guarantee the boys could do an equally good job at winning some of those too! If Jordan could be there (BTW- he says he TOTALLY doesn't want to be ;-)) he would probably blow us all away in each category, as I know some of you hunting moms' sons could do as well!

We hope to see you there!

All proceeds from the evening will goto chix4acause.org

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Hunting!

Paula

What A Night!

The hunting season for many can be bitter sweet. There are days when one tries so hard and it just doesn't pay off. Then there are the days where things just seem to fall in your lap. Looking over this past hunting season, I can truly recognize the feeling of bitter sweet.

After our hunting season is over, we love to celebrate! And of course, being the girly girls we are, what a better way to do it then throwing a party! This year's party took place on December 3rd at the Annex building in Kewaskum. Kelly has told us several times that the place had never looked so good. Donned with chandeliers (graciously donated for the night by Carrie Schaub from Serendipity), this glorious facility was detailed with shabby chic-ness throughout! Carefully placed lighting, shoes on every table, and even the bathrooms looked amazing! After months of planning, organizing, and busying ourselves, the night was set to begin.

We were happy to receive positive feedback throughout the night but one of the highlights was food and drink. Kathy and friends had a perfect place setting with tables of cuisine. Several courses were placed at various points of the evening. Sushi, salmon, and dips to name a few. Julie Wondra's Tastefully Simple delights completed the display. Chris Jung from The Candy Tree satisfied our taste buds with mounds of chocolate covered strawberries. Mike and Jeff from Jeff Spirits on Main made sure we would not go thirsty with great selections of wine and beer. I guess we should have told the women to come hungry!

Having known my husband for 28 years, I sure knew that a great part of this "hunting gathering" must center around stories told. As I sit back to reflect on the beauty of that evening, I see the circle groups that were formed, either new or old, creating the bonds that are cherished forever. Kathy put together a wonderful video of our journey to this place and it was joyous to imagine the care and time that went into making such a masterpiece. Jillian Clark, the Chix 4 A Cause founder, reminded us of all the wonderful Gifts Of Love, totalling over 10s of thousands of dollars, given to persons afflicted by cancer. Pat Jossart was there to partake in this evening. Her first year here was 2009, the year she had been diagnosed with breast cancer. A survivor today, she thanked Jillian for last year's gifts of love. Our hope for this year includes an 11 y.o girl who has been diagnosed with osteosarcoma. Her caringbridge website story of "thank goodness for pillow fights" brought out the beauty of our own emotionality. There are many more gifts of love to be given and thus our presence that night.

Amongst the connection and togetherness, there was some bragging to be done. Placed perfectly in the center of our canvas was the beautiful Buechel stage. It was the focal point for all to highlight their pursuits for the ideal shoe and accessory for the evening. Mary Wagner, author of Running With Stilettos and Heck on Heels dazzled us with her recollection of the very first time, in her 40s, of wearing her sexy heels to work, a naughty but nice feeling for sure. Her ensemble consisting of precious family keepsakesinlcuding her necklace and fur coat. Stacey Chapman reminded us not everyone can be lucky with the perfect size 6. Her size 11.5 foot makes it sometimes impossible to find that ultimate kill but that didn't let that stop her from success...sorry little girl! Kate Anderson displayed a gift from family that Stacey Howell from Stacey Jay designs made specially for her, a sweet reminder of the relationship she has with her soul mate. And Stacey had a story of her own, exposing the artistry she embodies. Ali Kertscher helped remind all that even the help of strangers can benefit the hunt...and get some of the "me too" Christmas shopping done at the same time- mastery! And last but certainly not least in any one's mind was Pat Poch's bucket list story of Harleys and accessories. She was all decked from head to toe (and who knows what she had on under it all!) in her Harley gear. A truly joyful and giving person she is!

Part of the enjoyment of our evening was to give awards to those very best hunting endeavors. Best Accessory went to Sherry Reiter, clutched to an adorable furry purse. She told of her custody battle with a dear friend who was shooting for the same kill! Luckily, Julie Bernarde will be sharing in the decision of 2 weeks on with the said purse, 2 weeks without. Sarah Guse walked confidently in Kim Kardashian shoes from shoedazzle.com. Her story of getting a hunting guide is worth the quick time it takes to set up an account, answer some questions, and get emails weekly about shoe suggestions! Sounds like a shoe hunters dream and well deserved best deal winner! Tammy Schladweiler, winner of best story, took advantage of the variety of shoes exhibited as table settings that evening. She strutted to the stage with mismatched shoes she used to dress up her already beautiful work of art spirit. (And she even surprised me by stealing some to wear to a Christmas gathering a few days later!) And though Tanya Fransen questioned getting on stage to reveal her story, she won best shoe with her ostrich white cowboy boots that she purchased on a recent vacation. By the sounds of it, we don't believe she ever took them off once she purchased them...and it's no wonder, she looked fabulous!

In order to help raise money for Chix, we gather donations and raffles from our local community businesses. At a time when the economy continues to be volatile, these local people seem more generous than ever! I couldn't believe that during our set up for the evening, we kept having to add table after table to account for the 40 raffle baskets and 1 whole table full of Auction items. Please take some time to review this list and say a prayer of thanks to God for creating such a idyllic and heavenly community. A huge return of thanks can be given by continuing to utilize their services throughout years to come!

Stacey Howell of Stacey Jay Designs, Kimber Wiedmeyer of Picasso

Carrie Schaub of Serendipity, Tanya Fransen of Gallery One

Katy of Gallery Two, Personal Touch Travel

Jeanne of Savoring Thyme, Krueger Painting

Tiffany Larson of hometrainingllc.com, Sheila Kruepke of Visual Graphics

Chris Jung of the Candy Tree, Piggly Wiggly of Kewaskum

Laura Ralph of Heritage Lighting, The Clothes Clinic

Somedays, Carpe Diem Hair Studio

Healing Elements Day Spa, Julie Bernarde's Unique Hats

Dave and Joyve Gonring of the West Bend Elevator, Sherry Reiter's Jewels

Candice Heberer Apron and Card Designs, Dermaspa

Honekor Golf Course, Julie Wondra of Tastefully Simple

A&W Recycling, Mikelle of E-Collectique of Saukville

Sunburst Ski Hill, Jeff Spirit's on Main

April Starr of Tan N Paradise, Tami Knoll of Hair Studio of West Bend

The Coffee Corner of Kewaskum, Jen Dillion of Stella and Dot

Sue Buechel Painting, Allen and Barb Heberer Wood Carvings

and Lisa Hays Handmade Knit Clothing

Thank you also to some generous donor friends who helped with putting together baskets or helped with fundraising for the night's success: Kathy Ramstahl, Pat Poch, Michelle Lemler, Jeanne Karls, Sue Johnson, Ronda Lichtensteiger, and Vicki Plachinski. A special thanks to all those who brought purses and jewels to donate. Gail Louiser, the pictures captured the events of the evening perfectly! And to Toree Ralph, for spending some precious time in creating his "one of a kind" duck-tape purse!

These last 4 years have been amazing. The friendships I have made, the creativity I have seen, the fun I have had. Kathy, you are a true detail oriented lady full of energy and ideas. Kelly, your passion for family and community is admirable and was nice to have reflected in the night's events. Don's rescue drive to the Pig to stock our bar was unimaginable! Tanya, your years of friendship supreme. Your timeless style with gifts of the clutches and belts over the years have been appreciated. Shelly, I am grateful for your time and for your continued sisterly support.

To Jillian and the Organization of Chix 4 A Cause. The donation of $3300 brought in that evening, along with an additional $1000 in silent donation brings our four year total to $9800 in gifts of love for those traveling through their journey with cancer. May each dollar be presented with the love and delicacy those individuals deserve. Amen.

Namaste My Good People, Namaste!

Paula

Top 10 Things We'll do on Dec 3rd: A Brief Run Down

It's the final few days before the end of yet another hunting season. I do not know about you but I am tired. Hunting is very hard work. Get up early, get snacks prepared, gotta dress the part and off to the stores you go! I sure am glad our hunting season ends this week. But I am totally excited about the after party! So let me give you all the run down of this year's after party sneak peek "what to expect" info:

1.Party starts at 7 pm at the Annex Building in Kewaskum (right behind the wonderful Coffee Corner). You'll be asked at the door for your $10 entry- this year you are going to be able to WAVE the entry fee AND get a super cute bag if you buy $50 worth of raffle tickets!
2. Sign up for your chance to tell your "hunting story". Remember the more creative the better! At the end of the night we will announce best story, best shoe, best accessory, and best deal! Remember to chat with others through the night so you are well prepared to vote! Each winner gets a beautiful prize (hint- yum!yum!)
3. We have so much food this year- sushi, chocolate, cheese balls, dips, salmon...yum yum yum. Though we always say this is primarily just small treats, come prepared to eat!
4. Drinks again will be provided by Jeff's Spirits on Main. My sister Shelly loves to bartend so will be ready to serve wine, beer, soda, and water for a small fee!
5. DON'T FORGET TO BRING YOUR GENTLY USED PURSES! We resell these for $10, always a good steal!
6. Raffles, raffles, raffles and auctions- lots of jewlery, beautified hats, birdhouses, Krueger painting, beauty products, Holiday baskets, wine, gift certificates, and more!!! Come ready to induldge for yourself or keep someone in mind for the upcoming Christmas season!
7. Jillian Clark, founder of Chix 4 A Cause will be there to talk about her wonderful organization. We will also reveal the next Gift of Love recipient!
8. Kathy has been busy preparing wonderful music and video for the evening's festivities! Bring your laughter and dancing shoes!
9. The most fun of all is the togetherness we share on this special evening- there is so much chattering it's sometimes hard to quiet the crowd for even 1 minute which is just a perfect reflection of the beauty of our undividied togetherness!
10. Drive home safely! We wish for everyone to be snuggled in bed at home once the party is over!

I really can't wait to see you there! Call or email if you have any questions! I thank you all for another wonderful season full of texts, FB posts, phone calls, emails, meetings, and hunting travel all about shoes and accessories! And for the great cause- Chix!!!

Paula
dnrshoehunt@gmail.com